I am impatient, eager to get
on with membership, and I just love
other Heartless Bitches. However, I DO
believe in being fair, and I never
accuse a man, (or woman, for that matter) of being an asshole without allowing
themselves to explain the particular
comment or situation that led me to
believe that they are assholes to begin
with. After all, anyone can have a bad
day. And we are all assholes at some
point in time. It's whether or not we
can turn from being an asshole into a
real person capable of genuine
emotional maturity and compassion for
others, that separates the true assholes
from the Bitches.
I also do not think
that being a Heartless Bitch is
necessary all the time. It should be
used as appropriate, and never allowed
to get out of hand -- for we are
responsible for our
actions. Accountable for the harm we
may cause, and for the joy we may bring
by being ourselves.
I do, however like
to say what I think, and I never ask
permission, look for approval, seek or
wait for help. I do it on my own, and
if that makes me a Bitch, I'm proud of
it!
I encourage this in the Sister's I
deal with, and I encourage it in the
men also, but I must say, I will be a
better Heartless Bitch on my worst day
than the peckerheads I deal with in my
profession (healthcare).
At any rate, I think a well balanced approach to
things is in order, but I can always
fall back on my inate bitchy qualities
to lift my mood and carry my spirit to
new highs. Nothing quite like a well
placed verbal kick in the nuts to some
asshole who thinks that because I have
turned him down, I must be gay, frigid,
sick, mental or married.
Yes! I want to read more from Real Life Heartless Bitches
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