We couldn’t have said it better ourselves…

December 4, 2013 | Filed Under Relationships, Social idiocy, The Heartless Bitch Way | 1 Comment

Why is every woman you date a crazy bitch? Well the short answer is: It’s you.

Yep.  Pretty much reiterates what we have been saying for years.  But he’s also got some good points on how different kinds of damage attract (and are attracted to) damage…

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You are NOT entitled to SEX – no matter how “nice” you are. GET OVER IT.

June 10, 2013 | Filed Under Relationships, Social idiocy | 2 Comments

Great article on Jezebel regarding the (unfortunately ongoing) issue of NICE GUYS (TM) – this time it’s about riffing the postings of these characters on OKCupid.

“Besides the near-universal sense that they’ve been unjustly defrauded, the great commonality among these Nice Guys is their contempt for women’s non-sexual friendship…..It’s a monumental overask to expect women to be gentle with the egos of men who only feigned friendship in order to get laid. “

AMEN.

And this is something we at HBI have been doing for YEARS:

“Nice Guys of OkCupid provides an excellent opportunity to reiterate a basic truth: there is no right to have sex….Mama firmly set me straight on the distinction between the right to want and the right to be given. Nice Guys need a similar sort of come-to-Jesus talk to disabuse them, once and for all, of their insistence that in a just and democratic society, hot young pussy ought to be distributed equally to every Tom, Harry, and Dick who demonstrates a minimal level of civility.

Read the full article at Jezebel:  No One is Entitled to Sex: Why We Should Mock the Nice Guys of OkCupid

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I’m now a fan of Captain Awkward

August 13, 2012 | Filed Under Lifestyles of the Heartlessly Bitchy, Relationships, Social idiocy, The Heartless Bitch Way | No Comments

Great responses to women asking for advice about “That Creepy Dude” in their social circles…

From the article:

Step 1: A creepy dude does creepy, entitled shit and makes women feel unsafe.

Step 2: The women speak up about it to their partners.

Step 3: It gets written off as “not a big deal” or “he probably didn’t mean it” or “he’s not a bad guy, really.” Any discussion of the bad behavior must immediately be followed by a complete audit of his better qualities or the sad things he’s suffered in the name of “fairness.” Once the camera has moved in and seen him in closeup as a real, human, suffering person, how can you (the object, always an object, as in “objectified,” as in a disembodied set of tits or orifices, or a Trapper Keeper, or a favorite coffee mug or a pet cat) be so cruel as to want to hold him accountable for his actions? Bitches, man.

Read the whole thing HERE

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Don’t try “negging” the kween…

April 7, 2012 | Filed Under Popculture, Relationships, Social idiocy, The Heartless Bitch Way | 3 Comments

Pickup Artist - XKCD

I so love XKCD…

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Toxic Men (and how to avoid them)

May 24, 2011 | Filed Under Lifestyles of the Heartlessly Bitchy, Relationships, The Heartless Bitch Way | No Comments

http://www.theglobeandmail.com/life/relationships/love/dating/do-you-know-how-to-identify-a-toxic-man/article1822855/

Great article – soundslike a good book too.   I can identify with Lillian’s comment, ” There was one ignorant person from Singapore who didn’t even read the book and he just went off on a tirade. He got all crazy. All toxic, I should say. People bring their own issues to it.” — We sure see a lot of those from guys who skim the “nice guys” section and just “go off”…. All I can say is, methinks he doth protest too much….

On the healing front, here’s what the supreme bitch says – indulge the hate/anger/vindictiveness – WITH A PROFESSIONAL THERAPIST – get help and do it in a safe place – DO NOT act out against the asshole  -it’s a losing proposition. Yes, have the feelings, but don’t actually act on them in real life. There is a way to work through it all and come to a healthier place.  Of course, the best course of therapy is to fix the hurt places in YOU so that you aren’t attracted to these kinds of assholes in the first place…

heartlessly,
-Natalie

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