You are NOT entitled to SEX – no matter how “nice” you are. GET OVER IT.

by Natalie P.

June 10, 2013 | Filed Under Relationships, Social idiocy | 2 Comments

Great article on Jezebel regarding the (unfortunately ongoing) issue of NICE GUYS (TM) – this time it’s about riffing the postings of these characters on OKCupid.

“Besides the near-universal sense that they’ve been unjustly defrauded, the great commonality among these Nice Guys is their contempt for women’s non-sexual friendship…..It’s a monumental overask to expect women to be gentle with the egos of men who only feigned friendship in order to get laid. “

AMEN.

And this is something we at HBI have been doing for YEARS:

“Nice Guys of OkCupid provides an excellent opportunity to reiterate a basic truth: there is no right to have sex….Mama firmly set me straight on the distinction between the right to want and the right to be given. Nice Guys need a similar sort of come-to-Jesus talk to disabuse them, once and for all, of their insistence that in a just and democratic society, hot young pussy ought to be distributed equally to every Tom, Harry, and Dick who demonstrates a minimal level of civility.

Read the full article at Jezebel:  No One is Entitled to Sex: Why We Should Mock the Nice Guys of OkCupid

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  1. Dana Ayres June 15, 2013 3:52 am

    It’s highly unfortunate that anyone should have to walk around with the notion in their heads that sex is a REQUIREMENT, period! I live a sexless life and I love it! That’s what works for me. Others may feel differently about their own situation. Some people find my situation really weird because I’m lesbian. They wrongfully ASSUME that I should be all about the sex. When they find out otherwise sometimes it pisses them off, especially some men! Can’t a woman just be left alone and content in her own skin? Why would anyone put pressure of any kind on another human being for sex unless they were a sick pervert? Sad.

  2. Dylan January 31, 2014 7:56 am

    I never really thought of Nice Guys as being entitled to sex so much as just rampantly insecure and self-pitying, but the number of “Yes should be given out because I put effort in” comments I’ve seen on OKCupid has changed my perceptions a bit. I suppose most of them are just obsessed with the mythical being called a “Girlfriend”. Nah, I don’t imagine they’d be half as “romantic” when a woman went out with as they are (or, at least, think they are) when they’re trying to impress her.


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