Toxic Men (and how to avoid them)

by Natalie P.

May 24, 2011 | Filed Under Lifestyles of the Heartlessly Bitchy, Relationships, The Heartless Bitch Way | No Comments

http://www.theglobeandmail.com/life/relationships/love/dating/do-you-know-how-to-identify-a-toxic-man/article1822855/

Great article – soundslike a good book too.   I can identify with Lillian’s comment, ” There was one ignorant person from Singapore who didn’t even read the book and he just went off on a tirade. He got all crazy. All toxic, I should say. People bring their own issues to it.” — We sure see a lot of those from guys who skim the “nice guys” section and just “go off”…. All I can say is, methinks he doth protest too much….

On the healing front, here’s what the supreme bitch says – indulge the hate/anger/vindictiveness – WITH A PROFESSIONAL THERAPIST – get help and do it in a safe place – DO NOT act out against the asshole  -it’s a losing proposition. Yes, have the feelings, but don’t actually act on them in real life. There is a way to work through it all and come to a healthier place.  Of course, the best course of therapy is to fix the hurt places in YOU so that you aren’t attracted to these kinds of assholes in the first place…

heartlessly,
-Natalie

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