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Natalie P.

This is the blog replacement for the “Bitchitorial” column that resided within the main structure of the Heartless-bitches.com site.  There is still tons of good stuff on the site, and it is updated fairly frequently with new members, rants, and reviews.  You can still get to the old Bitchitorial column archives, or follow the latest postings here. This blog is updated whenever I feel the urge to purge.  You can find out more about HBI on the HBI FAQ page.

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  1. jerrilee November 20, 2008 11:41 am

    If not for your site and it’s words of wisdom, plus the link to “Romeo’s Bleeding” I would still be struggling to fix myself so that I could save a 16yr relationship that abruptly went sour when he found a new love(?)to teach how to please him. His claim that I “failed” to fulfill his needs sent me into desperate self-evaluation,trying to understand how “I” could fix what “I” was doing wrong. He didn’t like my friends, didn’t like my occupation,didn’t like my family,he insisted I drop all religious activity because he should be first (not God).I adjusted,I curtailed, I suppressed, I kept mute,I secretly cried, but each sacrifice was never enough. He said he was only being “honest with me to teach me how to be a better person”. I was clueless why he never saw what I was going through to make him happy. Thank you for your site. I printed out your two sentences that define: “Safe people are…” I read it every day, have it posted on my fridge,and insisted my family learn it too. I’m slowly learning to find myself, to respect my interests, to accept my mistakes, but I revisit to reread your words often. He still drops by to see if “I’m better yet & if he can trust me…”? WTF!!He still dares to insist his actions were driven by my behavior. Whatever…thanks H.B’s..what you’ve exposed has saved my life.

  2. Amanda Kohn May 23, 2013 4:56 pm

    Hello there,

    Hope your day is going well. I wanted to send my regards over in response to your awesome video post on heartless-bitches.com in response to the Steubenville rapists. When the story first came out, I was in absolute shock as to how many people were actually taking sides with the rapists and how much backlash the victim was getting. It was evident that they were in the wrong, yet there were arguments as to why she had it coming and I was left confused and frankly, angry at how the town of Steubenville was responding. Your site in general is fantastic for woman-empowerment and I enjoyed seeing your video posts that you shared. So I thought I’d reach out with an idea I had with the hope that I could help contribute a piece free of charge for your consideration. Just a thought.

    That said, I’d love to hear your thoughts on this and send over some ideas on a piece that I think might add to the interest of your readers, let me know.

    Kindest regards,
    Amanda Kohn

  3. Shawna Martin September 3, 2015 1:39 pm

    Thank you for this!!!!